Lausanne

Dear Justina,

I am writing to you in regards to your so unclear future, which is always changing, never stopping and surprising you at all times. I have collected some very important tips for you to make life much easier, to feel more, stress less and  choose people wisely. Long story short – fill your future with   rainbows   &   unicorns !!!

“Do not expect anything, accept everything.”

Mhmm. Somebody said that. #sorrydon’tremeberwho #toolazytogoogle

Love yourself. Then everybody will feel the love. And… they will either love you or hate you… But they won’t stay indifferent. And yes, indifference is the worst. And who the heck cares about them anyways?!

Relax. You don’t need to impress all of them.  No one. Learn not to give a fuck about what people might think. Know your truth, but do not forget to listen. Actually… Listen more than speak. But that’s another advice.

Friendship is better than romance. At all times by all means.  A physical kiss is  nothing without it.. No no no. This I still don’t understand it, but magic lingers somewhere in the parallel universe.

Annoying is better than being indifferent. Feel the pain rather than nothing. And just so you know… If you don’t like something, you might fall in love with it later on. Madly.

Be the best version of yourself. Spend time with those, with whom you don’t need to think what to say or how to look. Relax. Be yourself.

Get some time alone in time together. Just go outside alone for a minute. Take a deep breath. And…. wait for it…. You’re well   again. Go join them.

Don’t work hard for people. Those who’re cool enough will stay with you anyways.

Stay silent. It   is cozy and comforting. Dare to keep your mouth shut to feel the bond between two souls. Or… don’t. Silence will show you. Oooh it makes a difference.

Lough and smile .. ALWAYS. Lough at yourself whatever happens and no one’s ever gonna be able to mess   with you!

Feel uncomfortable saying goodbye!  It’s totally okay to not know how to behave… Smile though and be honest. This always helps. And just observe how sweet it is.! You will see each other sooner than you expect. If you dare to.

Jokes are not really jokes at most times. Yep, they’re not. Haha. Wink wink wink wink.

Give it a try. Getting to know someone is a gift. And it takes so horribly long to actually feel it. In the beginning everything is superficial. Stay patient.

Don’t be sorry, don’t apologize! Do something about it and you won’t have to do the sorries… Make the change. DO   rather than just SAY.

Mind your business. Everybody’s different. Don’t feel frustrated that you don’t want or like the same things as the others do.

Stay cool. I mean. You’re already pretty cool. So just live and enjoy the moment. Sometimes it just can’t get better. But if it does, greet it with an indestructible smile!

& LOVE.

That’s the biggest   part of everything. The secret key ingredient to BE and to actually make your life MEAN something.